I admit that I was a sucker for Royal weddings as soon as I realized that there were real princesses who wore diamonds and silks. I was a freshman in high school when Princess Anne (now the Princess Royal) married Captain Mark Phillips. I remember getting up at an ungodly hour with my mother so that we could watch the carriage processions and ceremony eight time zones away from us in England. The next one, however, was the prototype for a generation of brides. How many weddings did you attend in the 80s with 'Trumpet Voluntary' as the processional, and a trail of Scarlett O'Hara crinolines and massive bouquets down the aisle of your local church? The so-called 'wedding of the century' between HRH, The Prince of Wales and the Lady Diana Spencer. I felt a small connection, since Diana and I shared a birthday, and yes, I couldn't help but be a little envious of that life (long before I realized what it really entailed). At the time, she fit the tropes - in folklore, the youngest daughter was said to be the purest and most kind. There she was, the 19-year-old virgin - and everyone knew that she had to have an exam by the Queen's OB-GYN, not only to prove her virginity, but also to ensure that she was capable of bearing heirs - the youngest daughter of an Earl, and while not classically beautiful, certainly appealing on some level. Laura Ashley had arrived on our shores in the mid-70s, and here was a girl marrying a real prince who wore the same kinds of clothes that I liked wearing. Pie crust frills on pure white blouses, full floral sprigged skirts, and cozy sweaters. Nothing too aggressive, sexy, or crazy, the absolute antithesis of the punks that we saw locally in Hollywood, or in London, on King's Road.
Flash forward past the personal drama, he said/she said, lovers, divorces, and the unexpected tragic end to Diana's life. I was home alone, sleepless, and remember breaking into tears when the newsreader announced that Diana had died. Not because I still felt an affinity for her; no, I'd divorced before Charles and Diana, and despite having an ex who conveniently forgot that marriage was supposed to mean the end of his dating days, I didn't agree with Diana's scorched earth/hell hath no fury tactics - in my opinion, move on and spare your kids the gruesome details. I cried because I couldn't stand the thought of those two boys having to go through their most challenging years without a mother.
Whatever my personal opinion of Diana, I respected her for being a great ambassador for British fashion. Diana worked with her designers - the Emanuals, Catherine Walker, Bruce Oldfield, Versace, and others to make sure that her gowns either made statements about the event she was attending, or telegraphed a message about her life at that moment. Being tall has its advantages, and as one of my design professors pointed out, Diana actually had about one extra inch between her bustline and armpit area, giving her a bit more of a torso than most long legged women have, which ensured she looked magnificent in her clothes. I think in the early 80s, we all bought into the fairy tale princess narrative, so having the opportunity to see some of her clothes was a nostalgic treat.
The Queen Mary in Long Beach, California, has a long term exhibition of some of Diana's most famous gowns, along with a LOT of royal memorabilia. Thanks to the 'Royal Rendezvous' of the Cunard Queen Elizabeth cruise ship docking next to the Queen Mary, admission was free for the day, and I thought I would finally take the opportunity to see the Diana: Legacy of a Princess show. They cut the price of exhibit entry by a third for the day, so it was indeed a treat, and well worth it.
I do have to say that the logistics of the exhibition layout are awkward at best - this is due to the constraints of being in the central forward cabin area of the sun deck. It is not a typical museum gallery space that is wide and can be reconfigured with flexible walls. The curators had bulkheads, doorways, and passages that can't be changed. On entry, if one goes to the left, there are newspapers, vintage newsreels, and a variety of souvenirs going back to the wedding of the former Duke and Duchess of York, later George VI and Queen Elizabeth (the Queen Mother). Featured in that section are a bright Schiaparelli pink couture nightgown belonging to the infamous Duchess of Windsor, as well as a heavily embellished white silk satin robe worn by one of the page boys at the coronation of George VI.
Turn right, and this is what people have come to see. A variety of gowns once worn by Diana from the early days of her marriage through her post divorce months before her death. Today everyone is well aware that the Princess of Wales had emotional issues and an eating disorder. On a visit to Kensington Palace five years ago, I saw one of Diana's gowns featured in the Enchanted Palace exhibit put on by Historic Royal Palaces. At the time I remember thinking that the gown itself was longer than I was tall (I'm 5'6" for the record). The case was large enough that I couldn't get close enough to guesstimate dimensions. Seeing Diana's gowns from the early 80s on the Queen Mary, I was shocked at how small the rib cages, bust lines, and hips were in some of those gowns. I also noticed a variety of shapes in the mannequins with some of them being a healthier size once she'd recovered from her eating disorder to a small extent.
Let me point out that I am using exhibit photos from L.A. Weekly (no photos allowed in the exhibit), and that the configuration has changed slightly as far as gowns shown and order. I adore fashion and costume exhibits. Last month I went to Hollywood Costume at the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts & Sciences Museum and later this week, I'm going to the annual Art of Film Costume exhibit at FIDM. Seeing Diana's gowns was like seeing old friends, because so many were familiar from photos in magazines. I am one of those horrible people who used to walk into Armani and turn things inside out to see how they'd cut the seams or attached linings. Obviously, I couldn't do that here, but I could look closely enough to see the teeny stitching on a buttonhole detail of an evening dress. Or really notice how Catherine Walker (a tall woman herself) used large scale details for her client Diana, another tall woman. The size of buttons, collars, prints, lace tape, even the size of cuts of contrasting fabrics to create a striped textile were all on a large scale. Ditsy prints, small buttons, teeny florals in lace texture all would have been lost on someone of Diana's height and frame. Contrast Diana's State occasion evening gowns with duplicates of Kate Cambridge's evening gowns in an nearby gallery space, and you get the sense that the Duchess formerly known as Waity Katie is delicate and small boned compared to her late mother-in-law.
One of the highlights for me was seeing the above Gold Rush era gown. This was lent to the Princess by the BBC wardrobe department for an event in Canada. The gown was originally designed for Francesca Annis to wear in a 70s dramatization of Lillie Langtry's life. This gown was meant to be worn over a corset, petticoats, and possibly small bustle pad. On the mannequin, I would estimate that the waist is maybe 25". It's also unclear in photos how lovely the two lace layers are on the bottom of the skirt, or that the sleeves are covered in matching lace. Also, that straw hat is small - maybe 9" from face edge to the back. Seeing the narrow torso on this dress was moment I realized how bad Diana's bulimia must have been.
Currently placed next to the Victorian gown is the above gown by Donald Campbell. It is actually more of a periwinkle or bluebell color than the lilac that it appears to be in this photo. It is also now missing the strategic neck strap, but does have the toning belt. This is also 1983, like the Klondike event, and so the Princess was quite thin then. Another guesstimate of a 25" waist (or smaller). As the information label pointed out, the designers weren't sure what to do with Diana, being so young and protocol precluding the extremes of haute couture, and so couturiers went with the fairy tale princess theme - teeny bodices and big skirts, much like her wedding gown.
At this time, the yellow and blue halter neck gown is not being shown, however all the other gowns in this photo are on display. At this point in Diana's life, Catherine Walker had evolved her client's look from the bell shaped ball gowns to the long silhouette which really showed her height and slim swimmer's hips to best advantage. The blue and pink strapless, worn dancing at a State event in Australia was highlighted in Catherine Walker's own book of her work, detailing how she'd had the fabric woven up in France especially for this gown. The peach and cream 'Tudor' neckline gown, also by Catherine Walker, had a middy-type insert added to the low neckline, more modest and appropriate for a Princess. The blue lace and chiffon strapless had first been worn on a tour of the Middle East and originally had a high v-shaped neckline and long sleeves, but was recycled and recut by Catherine Walker to make it more bare for UK events.
There are several more ensembles belonging to Diana, that are not visible in these photos, exhibited on the Queen Mary. In addition, there are three slender 60s era dresses belonging to the late Princess Grace, as well as duplicates of clothes worn by Kate Cambridge (and adorable baby clothes worn by wee Prince George). There are cases and cases of memorabilia, including Royal Wedding tchotchkies, every kind of gift shop joke souvenir and tea tin to be imagined, as well as framed letters sent by various royals, and a number of collector dolls in duplicates of Diana's gowns. While doll fanciers might enjoy the porcelain figures, I didn't think the sculptor did a very good job of modeling Diana's appearance - the faces were more oval with pointed chins, more along the lines of a fashion illustration than a true likeness. There were also a couple of cheap copies of Royal tiaras in plexiglass cases. Seeing them with plastic combs still attached brought down the level of the exhibit a notch. These things are available for sale on web sites like GlamourGals and they don't belong anywhere near the couture gowns, in my opinion. As my Great Aunt Elizabeth used to say, go first class or not at all.
As a curiosity, this exhibit includes the couture copies of Sarah Ferguson and Sophie Rhys-Jones' wedding dresses. Both gowns were made by their respective designers in case disaster befell the #1 gown at some point on the wedding day, and then later given to Madame Tussaud's London for the Royal Wedding displays. The gowns were auctioned off a couple of years ago and have found their way to Long Beach. While Fergie's gown has an excellent reproduction of the Garrard tiara purchased for her wedding to Prince Andrew, the cheesy rhinestone tiara shown with Sophie's gown is appallingly, eye-watering bad. If they're going to leave it there, it needs to be moved up off the brow of the mannequin and tilted back slightly on the head so that it's a better approximation of how Sophie wore the tiara that Prince Edward designed for her. Also, for whatever reason, the overgown is being shown unhooked and open over the slip dress, and Sophie wore it closed on their wedding day. It was really a lovely gown, very simple with medieval influences, but the silk chiffon of the overgown appears to be snagged and it's not being shown to it's best advantage. The Lindka Cierach duplicate of Fergie's gown is a sight to behold (well, it was the mid 80s - everything in excess). The seed pearls and bugle beads have oxidized and now really stand out looking silver compared to the aurora borealis effect on their 1986 wedding day. The skill of the embroiderers is really magnificently showcased on Sarah's embellished bodice and train. The combination A/S monogram on the center back of the train (referred to as the 'A Train' by Bryant Gumbal), as well as the thistles, bees, anchors, and waves are beautifully visible. While not as slender as any of Diana's dresses, Fergie's wedding dress is real girl sized, and something that anyone who was around in the day can relate to.
So what does it say about me and others like me who pay to see the gowns worn by women we never met? We could possibly relate to these women in some ways. Fergie and Diana both wore Laura Ashley and Ralph Lauren. Kate shops at TK Maxx (TJ Maxx in the US), Topshop, Reiss, and other real woman stores. The couture gowns are something that most women don't need. While I have a job that requires me to wear an evening gown once a year, I'm checking out the sales rack at Macy's rather than calling up Sarah Burton and seeing what's new in this season's McQueen collection. When I started realizing that being a princess meant having photographers follow you everywhere, having your private phone conversations recorded, and having everybody and their brother offering you unsolicited advice, I understood how lucky I was to be a civilian. While my family and friends might be interested in what I think, and my employer might be concerned about whether or not my appearance is professional, for the most part the world isn't really interested in me, and that's just fine. I might envy the wardrobe and travel perks, but I don't think I could stand to live in the fishbowl that passes for royal life. I understand exactly why William tries so hard to protect Kate and George from the indignities and intrusions that the press is continually imposing on them. Do any of us over 40 believe in fairly tales anymore? Do we buy into image? What is the purpose of that image anyway?
Maybe all of us, including Diana, were a lot more innocent early in 1981. Maybe we all wanted to believe in a real-life Cinderella story of transformation, albeit the aristocrat transitioning to Royal Princess. The burdens of fame weren't nearly as intrusive as they are now in the internet age. Seeing this or that politician lambasted instantaneously for a politically incorrect opinion or being caught in a whopper is turning into bloodsport. For whatever reason we human beings seem to need heroes, need to look up to someone to model proper behavior, morals, charity, leadership, and a dozen other things. Considering how our government has essentially been bought and sold multiple times over by the corporate world, I see the utility of having the Head of State separate from the Head of Government. Her Majesty has never put a foot wrong in over 60 years; indeed, if I were a politician I wouldn't make a serious move without consulting her, because at this point she's seen it all. I think the Royals do serve a purpose highlighting causes that might get lost in the shuffle without their patronage. As an Art Historian, I appreciate the fact that Kate Cambridge is patron of arts charities. No offense, but there are more than enough charities out there for every type of medical issue. The Prince of Wales was ahead of the curve when it came to environmental issues - average people are only just starting to appreciate that now. Yes, the Royals are very, very rich and privileged. However, that means that unlike someone who has to stand for election every few years, in theory the Royals can't be bribed thanks to their wealth, lands, art collection, and jewels. Do we want to be like them? I don't know. I find those nouveau riche real housewives of anywhere an insult to the county as well as honest housewives everywhere. People behaving badly on television are a distraction from the issues that are facing society. While I question the honours system at times (Joan Collins a Dame? Why?), there are ordinary people who have done wonderful things for British society and the Commonwealth, and it's lovely that they're recognized by their Sovereign.
Maybe it's not such a bad thing to have a Royal as a fashion role model. Whether you call it normcore or just dressing appropriately for the occasion, it's nice to see someone in the spotlight who isn't purposely flashing her bottom or cleavage at the cameras. Maybe I can't afford an Amanda Wakely evening gown, but I can certainly afford to duplicated Kate's French sailor shirt and skinny jeans, not to mention the wedge espadrilles to go with the outfit.
Tradition, discretion, appropriate behavior, compassion for those in need, being able to make strangers feel at ease in your presence - those are all admirable attributes that ordinary people could model from the royals. Like Elvis and JFK before her, a lot of us remember where we were and what we were doing when we'd heard that Diana died. Aside from mourning for a mother lost to two young boys, maybe we still think about her because she reminds of of our own better days, our own hopes and dreams, our own disappointments.
Whether anyone acknowledges it or not, Kate has learned from Diana that discretion is the better part of valour. She will not be spilling her secrets on television without the BP press office knowing about it beforehand, she will not be getting the message out to 'friendly' reporters of 'her side' of anything. I have a lot of respect for Kate; we've all heard the old chestnut about better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. Joining the Royal Family as an educated, mature adult woman was the best thing any prospective Royal bride could have done. Kate already knew who she was and what was important to her, she was secure in herself, and coming from a solid family unit, she didn't have the insecurities that divorce wracked on Diana, albeit through no fault of her own.
So these exhibits will go on drawing the curious and true fans. The gowns, the souvenirs, they're all part of material culture. I appreciate the beauty and the craftsmanship that went into the objects displayed at the Queen Mary. Clothing can be considered a totem, a talisman, a bit of metaphorical armor - it touches our skin, among the most intimate of the possessions we own. We prepare each day looking in the mirror saying, 'who do I want to be today?' For Diana, that answer could have been bride, princess, disco queen, victim when it suited her, athlete, strong woman, and mum. Her 'professional clothes,' if you will, were indeed her armor - the duchesse satin, the full crinoline skirts kept people at a distance. The Spanish term for corset - guardainfanta - literally 'princess guard' has made me laugh. But the layers of fabric, the boning, the stiffness help support the spine and the posture of a princess, and again, protect her body from the intimacy of touch. By viewing these things that once draped over the skin of a princess, we don't really gain any insight into her character. Diana's image transitioned from ingenue to siren, ball gowns to bodycon Versace. At the end of the day, after the millions of words written, thousands of photos published, books, videos, and films, she's still a cypher to us. We project our own values onto her, we hold onto the parts that relate to our own lives, and disregard the rest.
Was she a manipulative actress as her own grandmother, Lady Ruth Fermoy, is said to have believed? Is she still the patron saint of women scorned? I know women who are still pitching raving fits over Camilla all these years later. Why? It wasn't even our own personal betrayal... Was Diana possibly more like the rest of us than we suspected, someone who was trying to figure out who she was, and trying to do what other people expected of her, all in the glare of the public eye, while dealing with some pretty heavy emotional baggage. I still feel like I'm making it up as I go along, but I'm experienced enough to know what generally works at this stage of life. For someone to walk onto the world stage at the age of 19 without a lot of experience of life, but with an ugly family history and beaucoup insecurities...maybe that was the biggest act of bravado of all. Diana's mantra toward the end of her life was that she was a 'strong' woman. So maybe when we prepare each day, we should put ourselves in the headspace of a princess and think, 'what image do I want the world to see?' Make it a positive one, and maybe there will be some young girl watching you daily thinking, 'I want to be her...' the way we used to look at Diana, the way young girls today look at Kate and think 'I want to be her.'













